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Unfiltered & Unapologetic: Sanando el dinero, la identidad y el sistema nervioso — incluso las partes que la cultura nos enseñó a ignorar.
Unfiltered & Unapologetic blends money, nervous system regulation, faith, and cultural healing — especially for first-gen and children of immigrants who learned survival before stability.
Hosted by Caitlin Gil-Soto (MSF candidate), this is where we rewrite narratives around money, rest, boundaries, relationships, and self-worth with emotional depth, cultural context, and practical tools.
You’ll hear conversations on:
• Faith and identity
• Nervous system patterns and emotional trauma
• Money guilt, abundance, and financial healing
• Boundaries without fear
• Rest and softness as generational repair
• What it means to break cycles with compassion, not aggression
If you’re healing yourself while honoring where you come from — this podcast was made for you.
Follow us on IG: @unfilandunapologeticpod
Unfiltered & Unapologetic mezcla dinero, regulación del sistema nervioso, fe y sanación cultural — especialmente para los que crecimos aprendiendo a sobrevivir antes de sentirnos seguros.
Dirigido por Caitlin Gil-Soto (candidata a Maestría en Finanzas), este es el espacio donde reescribimos narrativas sobre el dinero, el descanso, los límites, las relaciones y el merecimiento — con profundidad emocional, contexto cultural y herramientas prácticas.
Aquí hablamos de:
• Fe e identidad
• Patrones emocionales y trauma generacional
• Culpa financiera, abundancia y sanación con el dinero
• Límites sin miedo
• Descanso y suavidad como reparación ancestral
• Cómo sanar sin desconectarnos de nuestra cultura ni de quienes vinieron antes
Si estás sanando y creciendo, honrando tus raíces sin repetir las mismas heridas — este podcast es para ti.
Síguenos en IG: @unfilandunapologeticpod
Unfiltered & Unapologetic: Sanando el dinero, la identidad y el sistema nervioso — incluso las partes que la cultura nos enseñó a ignorar.
21. When God Starts Whispering: Signs It’s Time to Let Go — in Love & Friendship
Not every ending is loud.
Sometimes, God doesn’t close doors with noise — He does it with stillness.
In this episode, Caitlin explores the quiet ways God speaks: the tension in your chest, the fading conversations, the peace that quietly packs its bags.
You’ll learn to recognize when a season has ended and how to honor those endings without guilt or resistance.
Drawing from her Dominican roots, Caitlin reflects on how many of us were raised to “aguantar” — to endure, to stay, to keep giving chances.
But what if God’s whisper is actually your permission to stop aguantando?
What if peace leaving is how He’s saying, “Mijo/a, it’s time to move.”
This episode will teach you to trust your unease, release what’s expired, and understand that sometimes, clarity sounds like silence.
✨ Episode Segments
🕊 Segment 1 — When Peace Leaves the Room
Peace shouldn’t be chased; it should be lived in.
💭 Journal Prompt: Where have I been trying to force peace instead of protecting it?
💡 Affirmation: If peace is gone, I can let go with grace.
🌙 Segment 2 — Conversations That No Longer Flow
Before God lets something end, He lets the words fade first.
💭 What conversations am I avoiding because the truth would change everything?
💡 I don’t have to shrink to be understood.
🇩🇴 Segment 3 — Dios No Te Va a Gritar, Pero Te Va a Mostrar
God doesn’t compete with noise — He speaks through unease and quiet clarity.
💭 Where has God been showing me something I refused to see?
💡 I trust God’s voice, even when it comes through silence.
🌿 Segment 4 — Repetition: When the Lesson Keeps Returning
If you don’t learn the lesson, the pattern repeats.
💭 What painful pattern keeps reappearing, and what is God asking me to release?
💡 I can honor the lesson without reliving it.
🌤 Segment 5 — Isolation as Redirection
Loneliness is not punishment; it’s holy space.
💭 What would happen if I trusted my solitude instead of fearing it?
💡 Loneliness is not punishment — it’s preparation.
🕊 Segment 6 — Divine Clarity vs Emotional Comfort
Clarity doesn’t come to comfort you — it comes to free you.
💭 Am I confusing comfort with compatibility?
💡 God’s clarity is my protection, even when it hurts.
🌹 Segment 7 — The Release
Letting go is faith in action.
💭 What do I need to bless so I can finally move on?
💡 I release what no longer reflects who I’m becoming.
🙏🏽 Closing Prayer
“God, thank You for the peace that protects me and the silence that guides me.
Help me trust Your whispers, even when they lead me away from what’s familiar.
May I have the faith to let go, the courage to rest, and the grace to listen before the storm. Amen.”
🎧 Listen to When God Starts Whispering on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, YouTube, and all platforms.
📓 Write, reflect, and heal with my blank journals available on Amazon. https://www.amazon.com/s?k=gil-soto+journals&i=digital-text&crid=6CBQ35KZENF8&sprefix=gil-soto+journals%2Cdigital-text%2C98&ref=nb_sb_noss
📲 Follow me at @caitlinlajefaa and @unfilandunapologeticpod for more healing reflections and community.
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